“Failure is simply an opportunity to begin again, this time more intelligently.” ~ Henry Ford
This year’s theme is, “This is MY Moment.” Goals focus on getting educators to believe their plans of action now will lead to positive changes and transformation in their teaching and learning environments. We vote for the goals as a community and sometimes I come up with the goals. Today’s goal was inspired by Debora Tebovich, a teacher in Argentina, who wrote about the goal here, Lesson Failed: Recalculating. For this goal:
Short-term goal– Reflect on a time you think you failed. What did you learn from this incident?
Long-term goal– Make it a habit to continually reflect on successes and failures within the week or month and how to improve for next time.
A Screaming Guardian
I remember the first uncomfortable incident I had with a guardian. I taught international students at a high school with a boarding program. About 70 teens came to the US to complete high school. They sometimes had relatives they stayed with. Gina (not her real name) was a student of mine from Italy who stayed with her aunt. We had a pretty good relationship I thought minus one incident where she had cheated on a test.
It was the week of finals. Gina’s aunt came barging in my class right before the bell, screaming what a terrible teacher I was. It was the first time I had met her or communicated with her after several failed attempts. I was in shock. Gina stood by her side quietly. I got defensive and asked if she received any of my previous communication attempts, especially when Gina cheated on a test and received a zero. The aunt replied she had, but that Gina explained I made a mistake. I was in shock when I realized the aunt had purposely chosen not to communicate with me. I told her to speak to my director. In the end, my director sided with me and told me the aunt was trying to get a discount on tuition.
It would be easy to forget this incident, but I like to make sure I can avoid situations like these. How could I prevent this? Where did I go wrong?
At the beginning of the year, I make it a point to get all contact information and send e-mails and handwritten letters to let guardians know what to expect. I also send regular e-mails to parents in other countries. For a long time, this communication was just to inform but now I have learned the purpose of this communication should be to connect and form an alliance with guardians to help their learners succeed. The first few weeks of school, I take the time and effort to now contact all guardians with positive messages about their children. This way the first contact ensures I am not out to get the child or have prior prejudices. This has helped improved my school year, tremendously. Working with parents means what I teach continues at home because the parents and I are a team making sure their children achieve.
I talk more about this failure and share other stories in this EduAllStars interview posted below.
Reflect on a failure. What did you learn?
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